Uniting attachment-focused therapy and neurobiology to help distrustful and traumatized children revive a sense of trust and connection.
How can therapists and caregivers help maltreated children recover what they were born with: the potential to experience the safety, comfort, and joy of having trustworthy, loving adults in their lives?
This groundbreaking book explores, for the first time, how the attachment-focused family therapy model can respond to this question at a neural level. It is a rich, accessible investigation of the brain science of early childhood and developmental trauma. Each chapter offers clinicians new insights—and powerful new methods—to help neglected and insecurely attached children regain a sense of safety and security with caring adults. Throughout, vibrant clinical vignettes drawn from the authors’ own experience illustrate how informed clinical processes can promote positive change.
Authors Baylin and Hughes have collaborated for many years on the treatment of maltreated children and their caregivers. Both experienced psychologists, their shared project has bee the development of the science-based model of attachment-focused therapy in this book—a model that links clinical interventions to the crucial underlying processes of trust, mistrust, and trust building—helping children learn to trust caregivers and caregivers to be the “trust builders” these children need.
The book begins by explaining the neurobiology of blocked trust, using the latest social neuroscience to show how the child’s early development gets channeled into a core strategy of defensive living. Subsequent chapters address, among other valuable subjects, how new research on behavioral epigenetics has shown ways that highly stressful early life experiences affect brain development through patterns of gene expression, adapting the child’s brain for mistrust rather than trust, and what it means for treatment approaches.
Finally, readers will learn what goes on in the child’s brain during attachment-focused therapy, honing in on the dyadic processes of adult-child interaction that seem to embody the core “mechanisms of change”: elements of attachment-focused interventions that target the child’s defensive brain, calm this system, and reopen the child’s potential to learn from new experiences with caring adults, and that it is safe to depend upon them.
If trust is to develop and care is to be restored, clinicians need to know what prevents the development of trust in the first place, particularly when a child is living in an environment of good care for a long period of time. What do abuse and neglect do to the development of children’s brains that makes it so difficult for them to trust adults who are so different from those who hurt them? This book presents a brain-based understanding that professionals can apply to answering these questions and encouraging the development of healthy trust.
- 1. Good Care and Poor Care: The Neurodynamics of Attachment and Caregiving
- 2. Blocked Trust: Stress and Early Brain Development
- 3. Blocked Care: The Parenting Brain and the Role of the Caregiver
- 4. Attachment-Focused Treatment: The Core Processes of Change
- 5. Trust-Building in Parent—Child Dyads
- 6. Practicing Openness: Awakening Trust and Engagement with Relational Processing and Fear Extinction
- 7. Healing Stories: Prosody, Integrative Narratives, and Co-Creation of Meaning
- 8. Playing in Safety: Strengthening Attachment Bonds with Delight and Co-Regulation of Affect
- 9. Treating Blocked Care: Guidelines for Working with Parents
- 10. Therapeutic Presence: Brain-Based Approaches to Staying Open and Engaged with Caregivers and Children
- 11. Expanding the Model: Mindfulness, EMDR, Neurofeedback, and More
Daniel A. Hughes, PhD, is a prominent attachment specialist and private practitioner. President of the Dyadic Developmental Psychotherapy Institute, he consults and gives trainings in the U.S. and abroad on issues of attachment and family therapy. He is the author of Attachment-Focused Family Therapy, Attachment-Focused Family Therapy Workbook, and Attachment-Focused Parenting
Jonathan Baylin, PhD, a psychologist in private practice, offers workshops for therapists on integrating knowledge about the brain with psychotherapy.
- “The book is written in a very accessible style, using ‘stories’ to illustrate points and to bring situations to life for the reader – user-friendly text for those working in this field.” — Special Educational Needs Magazine
- “Brilliantly helpful guide for working effectively and empathically with children rescued from severe abuse, and their new caregivers. – an informative, inspiring and uplifting book.” — Human Givens Journal
- “This eminently readable, practical, and profound book is required reading for anyone who works with distressed children and their caregivers. It is another example of how attachment science, when linked to neurobiology, revolutionizes intervention. This science offers therapists a comprehensive guide, not just to symptom reduction, but to the creation of secure connection, renewed growth and resilience.” — Dr. Sue Johnson, author of Hold Me Tight and Love Sense, Professor Emeritus of Clinical Psychology